An open letter to the amazing Dalindcy

“Sweet Dalindcy,

Today is a rather special day, today is your birthday. The thing is, every day with you is a special day and this day is no other, but I wanted to let you know how special you are to me and to the world. This open letter is me telling you and the world, that you are the most awesome girl existing on this planet and I’m so glad that I know you.

It’s rather funny how we met and how we grew close to each other, I think it’s very special from the very first moment. From the very beginning I felt this special link between us, I couldn’t put my finger on it at first. I felt so free and still feel incredibly free. Which is strange for me to feel, because I’ve felt caged for so long. Caged by my depression and not able to fully experience positive emotions. But since you walked into my life, that has changed for the better.

I’m so, so proud of you. It’s hard to put into words, how proud I am of you. I’m proud of everything you do and everything you try to achieve. I’m proud of your blog and how you keep updating it. Your blog to me, is a great source of inspiration, motivation and advice. More often than not, when I find myself in some sort of dark state of mind, your blog has helped me one way or another, which I think is pretty fucking awesome. Not only is the content brilliant and diverse, but your writing style is quite unique, just like the person you are. Your writing is engaging and tells a story, that no one seems to tell. It makes me want to read more and more, and sometimes I feel empty when I finish reading one of your pieces, because it’s over and I have to wait until your next piece.

I’ve always wanted to be a journalist or a writer and I’m never sure if I could manage that. But you are a freelance journalist and to be honest, I aspire to be more like you. I know, you should always aspire to be the best version of yourself, but I genuinely feel that I can learn so much from you with writing and way of doing business. You have no idea how our conversations about freelancing, journalism and writing have had an incredible positive impact on my life.

Another thing which you inspire me with is your youtube channel. First of all I’m a fan of your youtube video and I think your English is so very good. It takes a lot to impress me with English, but yours is amazing and I can learn a lot from you. (Except your American accent, you can keep that for yourself lol) I really love your youtube channel and especially your series about minimalism intrigues me. I’m not sure I ever could be a minimalist, but it has motivated me to be more conscious of what I do, buy and storage. You can see that you work hard for it and you deserve all the engagement and subscribers, I’m so proud of you.

But above all, you are the most amazing person that I know. You are the sweetest soul alive and your sweetness is like water to my soul when it gets thirsty. It’s so special to have you in my life and that you are my girl. I suppose love work in mysterious ways and sometimes you just know, this feels amazing. You came into my life and captured my mind and soul, just like the Proclaimers say in my favourite song about my heart: you saw it, you claimed it, you touched it, you saved it.
I’ve always had the idea that I was the person that invested a lot in relationships, both in friendships and romance. I always had the idea that no one ever could invest that in me, which made me incredibly sad, but with you I feel so loved and cared for. You invest a lot of time and effort in me and that for, is so incredibly special.

You are so funny! Every day you make me smile countless time and your little stories, puns and teasers, are the highlight of my day. It’s special, because I didn’t have a lot to laugh these last few years, yet you stepped in my life and here I am: smiling and laughing all day round. It’s a special talent you have, my dear Dalindcy. You make me feel good and you are my best friend as well, you care for me. You are a caring, supportive, loving person and I feel nothing less from safe every time I speak to you or see you. It’s like my little safe place in this difficult and busy world. I feel at ease and comfortable with you.

You are so intelligent. I think you don’t even half know, how intelligent you are. It’s so important to have conversations on a variety of topics. I love that we can talk about football all day, I really need that. I need you in my life. But we can seriously talk about anything and everything, which makes me feel rather privileged, I’ve never had this in my life. I can talk about my mental health, my work, my studies, my feelings and emotions, football, sport and my writing. I can seriously talk about everything with you and that makes me feel so incredibly blessed. I think I’m doing alright in life and I’m quite bright, but you educate me every single day, which I think is amazing.

Music plays a big part in my life and maybe we don’t have the same taste in music, you can appreciate music and how I think about music. We have different perspective in music and life, but that’s the brilliant thing. Every time we talk about music or documentaries, my heart makes a backflip. Or when we talk about food,  because food is life obviously. I think wow, where did I find this brilliant girl? I’m truly in love.

When I look at you, I feel that I’m in love. I see the most beautiful girl on this planet and I have to pinch myself in my arm, to reassure myself that this is all real. You are so beautiful and pretty. I love the way you dress and you have an awesome sense of style. But the thing that made me fall in love with you is the fact that you are completely yourself. I think the most attractive thing in people is when they can be themselves and are confident with being themselves. You are the most attractive soul on this planet, because you are completely yourself and wow. You are what I want and need.

I want the world to know that I’m feeling very grateful for you and that I’m so lucky to have met you, let alone that I’m the guy you want to be with. You inspire me, motivate me, encourage me and make feel loved. You are honest, kind, sweet, special, considerate and funny. Intelligent, loving, caring, beautiful, pretty, bright and thoughtful. You have a great sense of style, you are talented and your smile is everything. And can we talk about your eyes, omg your eyes. Your eyes are the most beautiful thing I have ever seen.

You mean the world to me and I want to wish you the best birthday today. Surround yourself with family and friends in your life. People who have a positive attitude and impact. You got this. You are special and God, I’m the luckiest man alive to be together with you.

Your Marc”

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  1. juni 24, 2017 / 8:54 am

    reading this post honestly makes me tear up. Thank for all that you've given me and continue to give me, I'm so incredibly thankful to have you in my life. <3

  2. juni 24, 2017 / 2:55 pm

    Wow this is so lovely Marc! Very inspiring it makes me want to write a long letter to my best friend! X

  3. juni 27, 2017 / 6:39 pm

    This is adorable! She must have been made up reading this! You are just the loveliest soul ever <3

  4. juni 29, 2017 / 12:41 am

    This is so sweet, had me tearing up a lot! You have such a great way with words and this is a lovely piece x

  5. juni 30, 2017 / 7:18 am

    It such a good feeling to write all these lovely things for the person you care for and/or love! Thank you 🙂

  6. juni 30, 2017 / 7:34 am

    Aww thank you so much Kayleigh, that really means a lot. Especially coming from you!

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